My recent days have been more of an uphill climb than I was anticipating.
I am not placing blame as my world is exactly as I created it. Some details went astray such as being a single parent, being allergic to cooking and having checkbook dyslexia.
And my story while somewhat unique comes with an allied army of single moms.
The truth is, sometimes we must take a break to avoid an emotional crash and burn.
My past two weeks have been difficult, as raising a 13-year-old son full of teenage attitude with a splash of oppositional defiance creates a perfect storm of chaos when trying to maintain a peaceful family lifestyle.
And just when I feel that I am ready to sing (word to thick girls!) I am able to enjoy Sunday visits with my parents. I am able to spend time on the phone with my best friend Tracey, or spend time on “g-chat” with my friend, Bassey.
And I get to let my guard down to vent and express myself knowing that I am not being judged. I get to laugh and forget if just for a moment, that everything is not alright.
Except now with a clear mind and heart full of laughter, it’s much easier to remind myself that while everything in not alright at the present, that there are happy endings waiting around the corner.
Before I know it the next day is here. I have survived the day that wouldn’t end, to face another day that will feel like it will not end. Knowing that I have the support of my family and friends, I know I will continue to succeed.
Yes, in many ways “it takes a village to raise a child,” and now I’m here to tell you that it takes a village to raise a single mother.
Michelle Bond lives in Woodbridge and often writes about her son, local living and about all of life’s other interesting curiosities. You can connect with her at [email protected] and on Twitter @1Coffeebreak.
